OK. You have joined Looks4Cooks and written a killer profile. Now it is time to ask the right questions.
OK. You have joined Looks4Cooks and written a killer profile. You’ve uploaded a good picture and now you are going to chat with a contact. What now? How do you start separating those who have real potential and those who don’t have any potential at all? You need to find out something about who this strange woman really is and not just who she wants you to believe she is. It would be nice if women wore labels like Gold Digger or Daddy’s girl. Unfortunately, they do not so it’s up to you to find these things out and you can’t just ask direct?questions. You need to know what mistakes you can avoid making and how to impress this lady if you decide you want to do that.
After you are past the initial small talk, ask her questions. Why Because this is the biggest mistakes guys make when dating online. Listen carefully to her answers regarding any questions you may have. She’s going to tell you a lot about herself and her views on men in general.
Next, you should ask her, what do you really think about online dating? Now she will tell you if she has had any bad experiences dating online this will help you avoid making the same mistakes as well.
Now for the all-important one. What caused the break up in your last relationship? If she puts all the blame on the guy, you should probably move on to the next prospect. If she takes all the blame herself, you should probably do the same. If she says the breakup was by mutual consent or that the relationship just wasn’t right for either of them, you’ve heard the right answer. Move forward but with caution?
Asking the right questions will give you insight and make you more confident when you meet the lady for the first time. I understand some people may feel like “Why should I even care about asking some or certain questions?” Because if you do not the person you could be getting to know could be a person who is doing the worst thing in the world and that would be “wasting your time”. We all know time is something you do not get back and it is priceless so why waste your time on a person who you do not even know because you decided not to ask her “any questions”.
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