Dating Tips

Good Advice – Safety Tips to Follow

Looks4Cooks main goal is for interactions to turn into experiences. Once you experience what Looks4Cooks has to offer, the possibilities are endless. As part of the Looks4Cooks service, we work diligently to prevent fraud, this team works diligently to identify and investigate any suspicious activity. Many free sites don’t provide this service.

Looks4Cooks feels there are certain steps that every person should follow while dating ? both online and offline. We ask you to take a few minutes to read these tips and require that you follow them.

Online Safety Tips

Protect your finances?Ignore any request to send money, especially overseas or by wire transfer, and report it to us immediately ? even if the person claims to be in an emergency. Wiring money is like sending cash: the sender has no protections against loss and it’s nearly impossible to reverse the transaction or trace the money.?

Never give financial information (such as you social security number, credit card number or bank information) to people you don’t know or you haven’t met in person. ?

Guard your personal and online access information?Be careful about sharing other personal information, such as your full name, phone number, email and address. You are in control of your online dating experience at all times ? remain anonymous until you feel ready. Take advantage of our member-to-member technology that protects your identity until you decide to reveal it through email or IM. Also, leave any personal contact information out of your profile or username.

Use extra caution when accessing your account from a public or shared computer so that others are not able to view or record your password or other personal information. If you share your computer with others, disable the auto sign-in feature to your account and clear all saved passwords.


Note: Looks4Cooks will never send you an email asking for your username and password information. Any such communication should be reported immediately.

Be Web Wise?Be wary of communications that ask you to act immediately, offer something that sounds too good to be true, or asks for personal information. There are certain red flags to watch for that may indicate you’re dealing with a scammer. Be aware of anyone who?

  • Quickly asks to talk or chat on an outside email or messaging service
  • Claims to be from U.S. but currently travelling, living or working abroad
  • Asks you for money
  • Vanishes mysteriously from the site, then reappears under a different name
  • Talks about “destiny” or “fate”
  • Claims to be recently widowed
  • Asks for your address under the guise of sending flowers or gifts
  • Makes an inordinate amount of grammar and/or spelling errors
  • Sends you emails containing strange links to third-party websites

The U.S. Federal Trade Commission’s advice to avoid online romance scams is available here:

Be cautious and use common sense. If personal details provided by another person don’t seem to add up, they behave suspiciously or pressure you for personal or financial information ? block communications with that person and report them to us immediately.

Block and report suspicious users?You can block and report concerns about any suspicious user anonymously from issues and concerns page, email or IM window.

.Additionally, please report anyone who violates our terms of use. Examples of terms of use violations include:

  • Asking you for money or donations
  • Married people or minors using the service
  • Members sending harassing or offensive emails/IMs
  • Members behaving inappropriately after meeting in person
  • Fraudulent registration or profiles
  • Spam or solicitation, such as invitations to call 1-900 numbers or attempts to sell products or services

Your involvement will help keep the community fun and enjoyable.

Offline Safety Tips

First meetings are exciting, however, always take precautions and use the following guidelines.

Get to know the other person before meeting them offline? Use the technology on Looks4Cooks that protects your anonymity to get to know someone before disclosing personal information or meeting in person. We don’t conduct criminal background checks on our users, so if you would like more information about someone, we recommend using the Internet and government resources available to everyone. This can include typing the person’s name into a search engine, reviewing public information made available by government offices, or using a paid service to obtain a full background report.

Always meet in public?Meet for the first time in a populated, public location ? never in a private or remote location, and never at your date’s home or apartment.

Stay in a public place?It is best not to go back to your date’s home or bring them back to yours on the first date. ?If your date pressures you, end the date and leave at once.

Tell a friend? Inform a friend or family member of your plans and when and where you’re going. ?If you own a mobile phone, make sure you have it with you.

Stay sober & Keep Methodical Thinking? Keep a clear mind and avoid doing anything that would impair your judgment and cause you to make a decision you could regret.

Drive yourself to and from the first meeting?Just in case things don’t work out, you need to be in control of your own ride ? even if you take a taxi.

Keep personal items with you at all times? You don’t want to risk having personal information stolen. ?If you’re drinking, keep your drink with you at all times so it can’t be tampered with.

Long Distance Meetings?Long distance meetings pose special safety concerns to take into account. Keep these tips in mind.

  • Stay in a hotel. Check into your own room and avoid staying in the other person’s home. If you can’t afford a hotel, you shouldn’t go. If your both meeting in a central location stay at different hotels for safety.
  • Use a taxi or rental car to get to and from the airport. Securing your own ride is important. Even if the person you’re meeting volunteers to pick you up from the airport, do not get into a personal vehicle with someone you’ve never met.
  • Keep your hotel location confidential. The person you’re meeting should respect your privacy until you know each other.
  • Remember to keep your family and friends posted. Tell someone who you are meeting, where you are going and when you will return.



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Who knows our site better than our users? Use this form to submit your suggestions and ideas on how to improve looks4Cooks and make your experience even more rewarding.

How to Report a User when clicked on this link a screen will pop up detailing this info below

Protecting Member Integrity on Looks4Cooks

We strive to present only profiles of real people who are on Looks4Cooks for the right reasons. All profiles submitted to Looks4Cooks go through an approval process, but we rely on users like you to improve the overall Looks4Cooks experience for everyone. Thank you.

If you receive an inappropriate email or see a profile that seems suspicious in any way, please notify us. You can do this from any concerns page. This information goes directly to and is reviewed by our Looks4Cooks Staff. If you want to report someone and need to locate the member again,?username,?then report your concern from the concern page.

Some situations require more information than others. If a profile just appears “fake” to you, no additional information may be necessary and you can simply Report a Concern. In these cases, if someone receives enough complaints and/or is found, after careful review, to have posted a fraudulent profile, they will be blocked from the site. More serious issues require detailed information so that we may determine if they require a more thorough investigation. If you feel this issue is very serious, we request you give us a Detailed Report, or Contact Us.?

Unsure which report to submit? To help clarify, see the examples provided below.


When to Report a Concern

  • If anyone requests money
  • If anyone tries to sell you merchandise or services*
  • If someone tries to offer you a job or another ?unique opportunity,? especially in another country
  • If someone’s profile text or emails claim they are not actually in the location their profiles states (e.g. they are really in Russia or Nigeria)
  • If someone’s profile just does not add up (e.g. the picture doesn’t match the information)

Tip: Many fraudsters seek men in a very large age range, or men 40-60.

When to submit a Detailed Report

  • If a member sends you harassing or offensive emails
  • If you know married people or minors who are using the service
  • If you see inappropriate profiles or photos on the site, or if you receive inappropriate photos via email
  • If a member behaves inappropriately after meeting in person
  • If a member violates any other policy


* A solicitation is an offer to sell something to someone. Our Terms of Service strictly prohibits the use of this site/service for the purposes of solicitation. Please?notify us?immediately?if another member sends you links to a pay-to-view site or includes instructions about how to call a 1-900 telephone number. Also report invitations to join other singles sites, emails about modeling opportunities or attempts to sell merchandise or services.?

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